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Change is a BITCH!

“I just got this cute new tablet but now everything that took me 2 minutes takes 15. I am so frustrated. Change is a Bitch!” she moaned.

“I need to reduce my stress but moving my accounting to Xero is driving me crazy. I know it will be better, but…” another client wailed on the phone.

“Change is a Bitch! she cried.

A few months ago we moved to a new town. Wow trying to remember all the things that needed to change…and change and then get found and changed again. I begin to understand why some people never move.

Change is a BITCH!

Okay so Change is a bitch but staying in the same place gets you stuck.

One of the greatest enemies of growing is refusing to change and learn and grow.He decided to change the meeting

Can you stop change being a bitch?

Yes but no.

If you see change as a bitch then it is.

If you see change as an opportunity then it is.

Fear of change is one reason why many people and businesses fail to grow. In the last blog, I wrote about not knowing what you don’t know and how that can keep you stuck.  What we don’t know is can limit our choices but the adventure of learning and developing new skills can be AWESOME.

Change is simply clear hopeful accepting new goal experiences.

Clear relates to your vision and your dream of the future once you change

Hopeful is about how you feel about the change. You always step out in hope and faith that the future resulting from the change will be wonderful

Acceptance is the attitude you bring to the adventure of making the change

New is about creating the future which for you will be new and different from where you are now.

Goal is the steps that make up the journey to the vision. You can break down the change into steps and each step is a goal to reach your vision.

Experience is the adventure of getting to where you want to be. There is no good or bad, there is only different. You may arrive and then go, “this is not for me”. But remember, there is no way to go back to what was. You have changed. You have had an adventure so you will change to something else similar to what you had before.

Success thieves keep us from changing. Success thieves make us afraid to step out on the new adventure.

Today make a change. A small one.

Change may be a bitch but embrace her to get out of stuck and excel.

To Your Change

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  • Max Arthur April 11, 2014, 6:23 pm

    Yes. Change is a bitch but we need to deal with it.

  • Sherryl Perry April 28, 2014, 3:03 am

    This is a great topic Roberta! I’ve always embraced change as an opportunity. Without it, where would be? Everything would be status quo. Not only would we get bored but we would have no chance of things getting better.

    It’s good to hear from someone else who embraces change.

    BTW – Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving a link to this post. I hadn’t been here for a while and that was a real motivator! :)
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    • Roberta Budvietas April 28, 2014, 8:00 am

      I like visiting your blog and do visit it every week. Your topics are all helpful to my business

  • Desiree Ricks April 28, 2014, 12:10 pm

    “Great, thank you for sharing this short article post.Really looking forward to read more. Fantastic.”

  • Peter May 21, 2014, 7:40 pm

    I totally can understand, that there are some situations, which could stay the same without getting you bored, but… change is always a good stuff, of course in my own opinion.. jet like the old greek philosophers said: ‘panta rei’ which means everything is flowing and changing, you only have to move with the flow and trust me, it can really make some serious fun! interesting post btw;)

  • Christopher James June 9, 2014, 1:47 am

    Change is a bitch but we all need to go through it.
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